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gent·le·man

ˈjen(t)lmən/

noun

noun: gentleman; plural noun: gentlemen

1. 1.

   a chivalrous, courteous, or honorable man.

   
   

   "he behaved like a perfect gentleman"

   • a man of good social position, especially one of wealth and leisure.
   • (in the UK) a man of noble birth attached to a royal household.

     synonyms:

     man; More nobleman; informalgent; archaiccavalier "a fine steed suitable for a gentleman such as yourself"

2. 2.

   a polite or formal way of referring to a man.

   
   

   "opposite her an old gentleman sat reading"
   
   
   
   

   Webster:

   1. 1 a :  a man of noble or gentle birth b :  a man belonging to the landed gentry c (1) :  a man who combines gentle birth or rank with chivalrous qualities (2) :  a man whose conduct conforms to a high standard of propriety or correct behavior d (1) :  a man of independent means who does not engage in any occupation or profession for gain (2) :  a man who does not engage in a menial occupation or in manual labor for gain
   2. 2 :  valet —often used in the phrase gentleman's gentleman
   3. 3 :  a man of any social class or condition —often used in a courteous reference <show this gentleman to a seat> or usually in the plural in address <ladies and gentlemen